'Tis the season
Nearly 15 years ago, I shared a video produced by a group called the Advent Conspiracy about how the holiday season has lost all of its original meaning, and is now just a celebration at the alter of capitalism.
They encouraged people to spend less money and give more time, attention, and love.
They’re a religious organization, and I’m very much an atheist. But they didn’t lean very heavy into Jesus at the time.
They’ve released an updated video with new numbers (we now spend over $1 TRILLION globally at Christmas!). They’ve dialed up the religious aspects a lot, but I think the core message is still a really important one.
In particular, their blog has a ton of great ideas on how to make the holidays more about building community and less about buying shit.
- Invest in experiences you can share. Sign up for dance lessons, go camping, plan a vacation, take cooking classes.
- Pass down memories. Make a recipe book or photo album to give to your family.
- Get a blank journal and write notes and prayers to your kids.
- Give a copy of your favorite book to a friend and then meet up for coffee and discuss it. Then switch and read their favorite book.
- Buy someone a gift that relieves a burden: babysitting money, help out with yard work, make a meal.
- Give the gift of hospitality. Invite a new family over for dinner and games.
- Do an activity with your kids – puzzles, jewelry making, baking, hiking, fishing, sports. Be present.
This is the kind of energy I’m trying to channel this year!