Them problems
I don’t know what the path to getting to this point is, but… I started being a lot more ok with myself and my ADHD when I started just owning that that’s who I am.
I tell people about my ADHD candidly up front, and it makes things a lot easier.
If someone’s mad at me after I say that my brain works differently and stuff that’s easy for them is hard for me, well… that’s a them problem isn’t it?