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The Best of Us

I don’t particularly care for Dolly Parton’s music, but I loved Dolly Parton.

She was literally the best of us.

  • Unapologetically herself whether people liked it or not.
  • Did not give a single fuck about what was “expected” of her based on her age, gender, career aspirations, and so on.
  • Could have been a billionaire, but chose to invest tremendous amounts of money in communities that were underserved instead.
  • A highly visible counter-argument to the idea that older white cishetero folks can’t help being racist, sexist, and homophobic because of when and where they grew up.

I talk often about making care visible and bringing more hope and joy into the world.

Dolly did that every single day of her life, and the world is a much worse place without her in it.