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It's embarrassing

I made another unhoused friend today.

Jon is a tattoo artist who suffered a chronic injury his thumb a year ago and can’t do his work anymore as a result. He only recently became homeless.

He told me the same thing I’ve heard from so many unhoused folks I’ve talked to over the last year.

It’s embarrassing.

And I always tell them some version of the same thing.

You have nothing to be embarrassed about. You’re still a person with worth, and you deserve of kindness and love. You didn’t fail. The system failed you.

You know what’s embarrassing?

A country that allows billionaires (and a fucking trillionaire) to exist while people who run into a health problem don’t have food or shelter. A country that spends billions building bombs and AI data centers and UFC stadiums instead of providing affordable housing and affordable food.

A country that calls itself “the greatest country on earth” shouldn’t have a single fucking person living outside who doesn’t want to be doing so of their own free choice.

Being unhoused isn’t an embarrassment. Allowing it to happen to people is.